Equality Or Chivalry?

Some women are expecting for equality but they are expecting for chivalry at the same time. Chivalry means courteous behavior, especially that of a man toward women. 



 Women are expecting for the guys to open the car door for them, pay whatsoever bill comes to the ladies direction,  carry heavy stuff and repair complicated items.

Can we ladies expect to do everything on our own as equal to the men and at the same time expect to be treated specially by men?
So ladies, equality or chivalry?